(Proverbs 4:18 KJV)
“But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.”
Never ever settle for anything less than the best in your home, never! Never permit yourself to continue life and marriage without making deliberate efforts to improve yourself. It is evil, murderous and suicidal at the same time. Choosing to remain the same and not to improve yourself makes a very wicked spouse, because you never get to create a soft ground for your spouse at all.
Part of the way you get to love your spouse is to make changes in your life that would make them happy. To continue in the same way you have always lived, and to keep up your negative attitude without making changes, is to be a wicked person. There are positive ways and steps that we can take to make ourselves better. And they are as follows:
5. Submit And Respect Better.
The only way to make marriage better is to improve your respect for your spouse. Learn to talk respectfully to your spouse, learn to have your spouse in high regard and learn to live peacefully with your spouse. And most of all learn to submit yourselves to one another, according to Ephesians 5:21. Learn to know who has a superior idea per time, and submit to it, even if you are the man or husband.
6. Think Less About Yourself And Think More About Your Spouse.
The reason why many people do not do well in marriage is because of an enemy called "self". When your life is mostly about self, me, i and or me, me, me, me, it kills marriage. Always learn to think about the good of your spouse all the time, and your marriage will work well. That is how you get to be a better spouse.
Assignment/Prayer
-Lord help me to respect and submit better in love and the fear of God to my spouse in Jesus Name.
-Lord enable me by your spirit to think less about myself and to think more about my spouse in Jesus Name.
Nugget
Never permit yourself to continue in life and marriage without making deliberate efforts to improve yourself.
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